Last week was very emotional. On top of waiting for my biopsy results, we took Doran to college.  Just like being empty nesters will be a new normal, so will scares like this, I think. It’s impossible to memorize how my breasts feel today; in a couple of weeks, I won’t remember if all the…

Today is the one year anniversary of my diagnosis. And I got quite the anniversary present. I found out the biopsy I had on Monday was benign. Does this feel like deja vu?  Let’s backtrack. I messaged Dr. Brufsky’s office earlier this summer to let them know I felt a hard spot by my breast…

I realized the other day that it’s time to clear out some of the detritus from cancer treatment. I still had Magic Swizzle under my bathroom sink, hats and beanies hanging in my closet, and a bin overflowing with head scarves. I don’t need this constant reminder, not when I’m trying to move past it.…

I got my tattoo today! I ended up going with a design my artist mother-in-law sketched. Despite my misgivings about the pink ribbon, it really says it all. People see it and immediately know what it represents. But my version is a little different, with a classic Ellen flower touch. I opted for my outer…

A week ago, the area around my scar started hurting. I didn’t know what to make of this, as my surgery was months ago. After talking to a couple of people and posting in my local breast cancer group (412 Thrive), I got my answer: it’s the nerves regenerating. Which is a good thing, but…